When I quit my job in the middle of December, the plan was to take some time off, travel, relax and decide what to do next with my life. But people asked about my first destination, I pretty much drew a blank. The list looked something like this: Eastern Europe, Japan, Italy or France for cooking school, a NE US trip and maybe one or two trips to “someplace tropical” for scuba diving or snorkeling. I felt free to add other trips later as they occurred to me, but even with that short (!) list I couldn’t decide where I wanted to go first.
My guess is that I decided I wanted to try to see cherry blossoms in Japan before they were gone, so I scrambled around and got reservations at a few places to stay, got plane tickets, and went on a crash course in “what do I want to do in Japan?!”
Tokyo and Kyoto were pretty much guaranteed stops, and after a little bit of browsing I came across awesome descriptions of the “onsen” experience, so that got added too. Reservations were a little tricky to get online, but it worked itself out over a few days, and I relaxed a little. With the schedule of where-I’d-be-sleeping settled, the next step might have been to figure out what to do during the days. But after skimming around a few books on the matter, I felt pretty confused about what I wanted to see and how best to go about seeing it, so I ditched most of the books and stuck with a very slim Lonely Planet book on Tokyo and a not-much-bigger book on “Old Kyoto” recommended by some friends.
When I got settled in my seat for the 10-hour flight to Tokyo, I pulled out a few notes and tried to figure out where I was going, and what would be Up once I got there.
Q: What do I want to see/do/experience in Japan?
A: Hm….
So, I pretty much procrastinated planning the trip until the very last minute, and then found that the books I’d brought weren’t really suited to the task of leading me to what I’d hoped to do and see. The lil’ Tokyo book was no more than 120 pages long, and the Old Kyoto book focused mostly on crafts, not the gardens and museums that I really hoped to see there. “No worries,” I thought, “I’ll just wing it.” So I did.
I wrote down a list of things I’d like to do in Tokyo: Baseball game, rush hour, early morning Tsukiji, Kabuki, Noh, TIC/Ginza, Harajuku (Sat/Sun), Edo-Tokyo museum, music, stock exchange, movies, Sony HQ, DVD/electronics shopping, Sushi, 7-11, sake museum, Kaiseki, kobe beef, ramen, eel, soba, Hama Rikyu Onshi-Teien, Yasukuni shrine.
And for Kyoto: gardens, museums, scolls, ceramics, lacquerware, combs, oden stem, Ryoanji, woodblock prints, rice cracker, soba, chopsticks, eel.
I felt like these lists gave me a pretty good slice of old and new Japan, and that if I did even 1/3rd of the list I’d be pretty happy. The rest of the time could be spent sitting on the sidewalk watching people go by, and that’d be OK with me, because on most of my past vacations I’ve ended up “wasting” wide swathes of time doing essentially nothing while I either slept, wandered lost, sat on a log resting my feet or simply sat watching people go by. Traveling with other people is almost worse… time “lost” to congressionally determining what’s to happen next is quite a bit less satisfying than quietly sitting on a bench watching foreigners go about their lives.
After so much time watching people in Britain, France, Germany, China and Japan, I’m starting to realize how much I’m affected by the illusion that I’m understanding much about people by watching them on the street, shopping center, subway or park. Each has a distinct feel, and I go back home thinking that I’ve learned something significant by watching them bustle, but on this trip I mainly grew more skeptical about my ability to grasp much about a place without speaking the language. My command of Japanese is mostly useless, and by the time I left I felt that I was just peering at Japan through a tiny pinhole. What I saw was fascinating, but I don’t have my younger confidence that seeing people strolling along was giving me deep insights into similarities and differences between they and moi.
Having said all that, I’ll mention that what I mostly did on the flight was study Japanese. Before leaving, I’d worked on remembering the hiragana I knew from high school, and had brushed up on a few politenesses. But on the plane I really hammered away on some vocabulary and a few more pithy phrases that might come in handy.
Which train goes to _____?
How much is it?
Please give me _____.
more
less
Numbers 1-30, 100, 1000
I’m pleased to meet you!
Verbs for: eat, look, sit, go, give, walk, sleep, pay, buy, listen, say
Colors: red, blue, yellow, black, white, green, orange
Today, tomorrow, tasty, morning, afternoon, evening, night, sky, moon, sun, tree, star, garden, big, small, beautiful
I can speak a little Japanese
It was horrible. Almost nothing is similar to any words I already know, and I had the distinct feeling that it would all be swept away with my first night’s sleep. In fact, most of the words I studied I held on to pretty well during the trip, reinforced by my bullheaded habit of using them whenever I saw the slightest opportunity. Most Japanese people did not find it helpful, interesting or welcome that I would sometimes point to an object and state its color, but I did it anyway.
The words I really wish I’d practiced more were the verbs…. sigh. Give, take, sit, stop, stay, wait, etc…. all would have been helpful. Oh well. I’ll try harder for Italian.
Landing in the airport, I changed money, got a train ticket to Tokyo, and managed to get into the city OK. Transferring to various subways to get to my hotel was trickier, especially as I got sleepier. After I finally got to the correct subway exit, I spent — no joke — 1-2 hours wandering around the neighborhood looking for my hotel. It’s comic now and was thoroughly ridiculous and appalling at the time. None of the landmarks on their little map made any sense to me, and Japanese streets are notoriously unnamed and of varying block length.
I bundled into my pocket-sized single room, and slept happily on the stiff futon.
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